it is my belief that certain cats perpetuate fake relationships for the sake of numbers. my personal approach as 3y3 get older is not to collect wayward & unreliable associates who are either unable or unwilling to reciprocate whatever i give to those 3y3 deem close.
when you holla at cats & they do not respond, those are not friends. if they’re only in your camp because you tend to cover the fees, those are not friends. if the only time they communicate is when you initiate the contact, those are not friends. if you have to be a representative instead of self to be around them, those are not friends.
it seems that some peeps, upon realizing that there are many individuals incapable of being a friend to anyone, decide to isolate self. IMHO this is a counterproductive & - response. if those around you at the moment are not the friends you’d like to see, then you need to move about more.
this movement is meant physically & mentally. in many if not most cases, the mental movement needs to be the 1st thing. get your mind right. you’re only going to be around the types of people you bring/allow into your life & who wants to be around shitty energy on a regular basis?
do the MATH:
NO FRIENDS > FAKE FRIENDS